What Causes Breakups in Love
So what causes the great number of breakups in love? Is it that we are unprepared to do the work love requires, or is it something else? Depending on whom you ask, you might hear any number of explanations, including media influence, genetic predisposition, or a shift in modern family values. To some extent, i’m sure every reason we can think of for the breakdowns in our own relationships probably holds some truth, especially when we talk about our partners. “He or she didn’t communicate, was immature, emotionally unavailable, afraid of commitment, untrustworthy”. According to Buddhism, however, the most fundamental source of difficulties in love is found not in our mates but in our own desires and behaviors, within our own thoughts, words and deeds. That is our karma.
Yep, that is right, your actions, your thoughts not those of your partners, are what determine your success in love as well as in all other areas of your life. That knowledge is powerfully freeing, for no longer are you reliant on others for your happiness. You alone direct the course of your love and life and attract happiness on your own terms.
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